One day, not that very long ago, I was in the car with my family, driving on a shared outing.
My mother said, “There’s a rainbow!”
I (sitting in the back seat, craning my neck to see) said, “I can’t see it”
My father said, “it’s really faint, it’s not worth seeing”
As we can see, one person saw something that filled them with happiness to the point they instinctively remarked on it, and desired to share the experience.
One person, was truly interested in sharing this experience, and did everything in their power to enjoy it.
And one person, who had no impediment to experiencing it (besides their personality) dismissed it as not worth the effort.
Make of this what you will.